Assuming an absolutist stance, the cook may decide to go to a meeting where clients are unlikely to attend.
The Cook may make the best of an awkward situation, stay at the meeting, and be selective about what experiences to share, maintaining some boundary with the client. But while the cook may be modeling the importance of attending meetings for the client, he or she may be deprived of a full personal experience.
The Cook may decide to participate fully, which is a risk he or she may feel comfortable managing.
Any option is acceptable provided they are given thoughtful analysis and the Cook can justify his or her decision based on foreseeable risk.
